Our previous post offered a moment to pause and appreciate DinnerAndSong (DNS), one year after its inception.
As promised, here is an email thread between ListeningRoomNetwork founder Fran Snyder and one of our house concert hosts regarding DinnerAndSong. Fran articulates the benefits in ways that are worth re-visiting as we head into our second year of DNS.
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Host: ….We just think one 35 minute set is too little - especially if we're asking people to contribute the same dollar amount as they would on the weekend. Don't know how it is in other parts of the country, but here it's tough to get an audience of decent size if they haven't heard of the performer previously….
Fran: Nice to hear from you. You are welcome to do as you wish, but here's the reasoning behind how we pitch the DinnerAndSong idea.
We do dinner-around-the-table-with-the-artist, and one set, for $10, for 8-10 guests, for the following reasons.
1. Keep the event short (90 minutes total) so that anyone (host or guest) can make time to do it on a weeknight.
2. A simple dinner (pizza and salad, etc), is cheap enough for the host to provide for 8-10 guests, and allows the guests to not have to bring anything to the concert. Considering that even a stop at Taco Bell is $5 for most people, this actually makes the cost of the concert closer to $5.
3. The dinner-with-the-artist with a small group, is much more intimate than a standard house concert, which adds to the value, and can even be considered part of the entertainment in some circumstances. Musicians can have great stories, and for most people it is quite enjoyable to get a peek behind the scenes of their careers.
4. 8-10 guests makes it possible for everyone to sit together for the dinner, and means that the host most likely won't have to move any furniture for the concert - everyone can just gather round in the living room. It's only 35 minutes, and we've found with DessertAndSong, you can have the same vibe with more people, since many people are comfortable standing or leaning for a 35 minute show. After all, most people have been sitting down all day.
So to your point about the fact that it's tough to get an audience of decent size, that's another great premise behind DinnerAndSong.... it works with 8-10 people. Sure, the artist only makes $100-150 with merch, but gets an easy, enjoyable, productive night (on a tuesday, for example) with their food and lodging expenses covered. Believe me, when an opportunity like this fills a gap in their schedule, without taking them off course, most artists are thrilled with this arrangement. Otherwise, it's a crappy cafe, with distracted patrons, and playing for tips for 2 hours. Oh, and then you book a crappy hotel and spend all or more than what you made that day.
We actually encourage all new hosts to start with DinnerAndSong now. We've seen so many hosts struggle with their ambition to put on big shows, and turn into PT Barnum to promote their events as if they were public concerts. And they set up 35 chairs, then see most of them remain empty because people don't respond, show, or feel compelled to attend.
We'd rather see hosts turn away guests, "sorry, we already have our 10 guests" to build a buzz, to demonstrate that what they do is in demand, and that you should RSVP right away next time if you want to participate. Invite different people each time, and you can start building a core audience and a mailing list to eventually do larger events, on weekends, and not pull your hair out over attendance.
Hopefully some of this resonates with you, but not to worry if it doesn't.
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Thanks, Fran. Let’s raise our glasses to Year Two for DNS and thousands of successful concerts throughout the world, including your neighborhood!